Cancun 2025

A Quick but Memorable Getaway to Cancun

A couple of months ago, Nicole and I escaped the winter cold for a much-needed Cancun getaway in January. It all started when I got an offer from the Westin Resort & Spa in Cancun—a 4-night stay for just around $300. At that price, how could we say no?

We made the most of our short trip, soaking up the sun, swimming, and snorkeling in the crystal-clear waters. Whether we were lounging by the pool, walking along the beach, or just relaxing with a drink in hand, it was exactly the kind of break we needed.

I even planned a couples massage for us, thinking it would be a nice touch to our getaway. Well… let’s just say it wasn’t quite worth the money. It wasn’t terrible, but it definitely didn’t live up to expectations. Lesson learned!

One of the most memorable nights was dining right by the ocean. The setting was perfect—until a huge downpour hit. The restaurant had a thatched roof, but unfortunately, it wasn’t fully waterproof. So there we were, enjoying our meal, while water dripped all around us. Instead of letting it ruin the night, we just laughed and made the best of it. It’s moments like that that make a trip truly unforgettable.

Even though the trip was short, it was exactly what we needed—a chance to relax, recharge, and create new memories together. Cancun, we’ll definitely be back!

The Proposal

The Best Christmas Gift: A Proposal to Remember

Christmas has always been one of my favorite times of year, but Christmas Eve 2024 will forever stand out as one of the best nights of my life.

Nicole’s mom and brother were visiting for the holidays, and we were all gathered in the living room, opening gifts in front of the fire, soaking in the warmth of the season. I had also arranged for her nephews to be on FaceTime, wanting them to be part of what was about to happen.

Then, the moment arrived.

Just as I started to get up to kneel down, her mom—without hesitation—blurts out,
“What are you going to do, propose!?”

I froze for a split second, then turned to her with a smirk and said,
“Why yes, I AM!”

Everyone burst into laughter, including Nicole, but I didn’t let the moment slip away. I turned to her, knelt in front of her, and asked:
“Would you make me the happiest man in the world and marry me?”

Through tears of joy, she said YES!

Suddenly, we were both crying and laughing—crying because of the overwhelming happiness of the moment, and laughing because of her mom’s perfectly timed outburst that made the whole thing even more unforgettable.

It was the most amazing night, surrounded by family, love, and a little unexpected comedy. I couldn’t have asked for a more perfect moment or a more perfect person to spend my life with. Nicole, I can’t wait for forever with you. 💍❤️

Gypsy Rose

Welcome to the Family, Gypsy Rose

Life has a way of bringing the right things at the right time, even when you least expect it. This December, Nicole and I adopted a new family member—Gypsy Rose, a sweet and playful 1-year-old cat who has already stolen our hearts.

For a long time, I wasn’t sure if I wanted another pet. In 2019, while I was away on a trip, my last cat passed away. It was traumatizing, and the thought of going through that kind of loss again kept me from even considering another animal. But then, Gypsy Rose came along.

From the moment we brought her home, she fit right in. She’s affectionate, curious, and just a little mischievous—everything you could want in a cat. Whether she’s chasing after toys, curling up in a warm spot, or just following us around the house, she’s already made herself at home.

We couldn’t be happier to have her as part of our lives. Gypsy Rose has brought so much joy into our home, and I’m glad I finally opened my heart again.

Here’s to new beginnings and the unconditional love of a pet. 🐾💕

National Harbor

A Well-Deserved Getaway to MGM National Harbor

Starting my own business has been an incredible journey, but let’s be real—it’s a lot of work. Between launching Chesapeake IT Services LLC and keeping up with client needs, I had been running nonstop. I needed a break, and what better way to recharge than a quick getaway with Nicole?

So, in mid-November, we packed up and headed to National Harbor for a much-needed night of relaxation and fun. We stayed at The Westin, which was the perfect spot to unwind, and had dinner at Ginger, a fantastic Asian restaurant inside MGM National Harbor.

Now, let’s talk about the Dungeness crab. It was my first time trying it, and while I love seafood, I have to say—the way they prepared it was an absolute sloppy mess. It tasted fine, but let’s just say I was not expecting that level of chaos on my plate. Lesson learned!

After dinner, we did a little gambling. No big wins or handpays this time, but that didn’t matter—we were just there to have fun and enjoy the night.

Taking this short trip reminded me how important it is to step away, even for just a night, and enjoy life. Running a business is rewarding, but so is making great memories along the way.

Until next time, National Harbor! 🎲🍀

Halloween 2024

A Spooky, Fun-Filled Halloween in Our Neighborhood

Halloween this year was one for the books! Nicole and I had a perfect plan—she organized a neighborhood gathering at the pavilion, bringing everyone together for food, fun, and community. Meanwhile, I was fully committed to my role as the Grim Reaper, ready to give trick-or-treaters a night they wouldn’t forget.

We went all out decorating the house, setting the perfect eerie atmosphere. Spooky flickering lights lined the path and pole light, casting creepy shadows everywhere. Then came my favorite part—the scare setup.

I positioned myself in a chair right in front of the door, draped in my full Grim Reaper costume, a giant bowl of candy in my lap. I sat as still as possible, blending in with the decorations, waiting for my unsuspecting victims.

The best part? Watching trick-or-treaters debate whether I was real or just a statue. Some would nervously approach, whispering to each other, “Do you think it’s a person?” I’d let a few pass, building up the suspense. But for the ones who got way too close, just as they let their guard down—I’d suddenly move and let out a yell! The reactions were priceless—shrieks, jumps, nervous laughter, and pure Halloween fun.

The night was filled with laughter, good scares, and great memories. I love my neighborhood, the sense of community we have, and this amazing new chapter of my life with Nicole.

Can’t wait to do it all again next year! 🎃👻